Through the eyes of Melissa

In today's world, diversity, equality, and equity are essential values that promote social justice, inclusivity, and human rights. These three interconnected concepts are crucial for creating a society where everyone has the opportunity to thrive and reach their full potential. In this blog post, we'll explore the meanings of diversity, equality, and equity, and discuss why they're essential for building a more just and inclusive society. Diversity: Celebrating Our Differences Diversity refers to the presence of different groups or individuals with unique characteristics, experiences, and backgrounds within a community or organization. This includes differences in race, ethnicity, gender, age, religion, ability, sexual orientation, and socio-economic status. Embracing diversity means recognizing and valuing the contributions and perspectives of all individuals, regardless of their background or identity. Equality: Ensuring Fair Treatment Equality means treating everyone wit...

Mental depression is a silent killer that affects millions of people worldwide. It's a debilitating condition that can rob individuals of their joy, energy, and motivation, making everyday tasks feel like insurmountable challenges. As someone who has walked through the dark tunnel of depression, I understand the struggle and the importance of seeking help. In this blog post, we'll explore the complexities of mental depression, its impact on daily life, and most importantly, strategies for working through it. If you're struggling with depression, know that you're not alone, and there is hope for healing and recovery. Understanding Mental Depression Mental depression, also known as major depressive disorder, is a mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and loss of interest in activities. It's not just a bad day or a temporary setback; it's a chronic condition that requires professional treatment. Depression can manife...

Love has the power to transform our lives in profound ways. It can bring people together, create a sense of belonging, and provide comfort and support in times of need. Love can also inspire us to be our best selves, to grow and evolve, and to make sacrifices for the benefit of others. The absence of love, on the other hand, can lead to feelings of loneliness, isolation, and disconnection. Cultivating love requires effort and commitment. It involves being present, empathetic, and understanding, and being willing to listen, forgive, and compromise. It also requires self-love and self-care, as we cannot truly love others if we do not love ourselves. By nurturing love in all its forms, we can create a more compassionate, supportive, and loving world. In the words of Martin Luther King Jr., "Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend." Let us embrace love in all its forms, and let it guide us on our journey towards happiness, fulfillment, and connection...

Love is a complex mix of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person. It is a universal human experience that can bring great joy and fulfillment, but also heartache and sorrow. Love is a fundamental aspect of human life, and it is essential to understand its different forms, its impact on our lives, and how to cultivate and nurture it. There are many forms of love, including romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. Romantic love is the intense, passionate, and often all-consuming love we experience in intimate relationships. Familial love is the bond between family members, such as parents and children, siblings, and extended family. Platonic love is the deep affection and friendship we share with others, and self-love is the acceptance, care, and compassion we show ourselves.

 Some may say there are no good men in the world but there are... I hate when generalize and class ppl because most ppl they know are messed up... There are good men in the world just like how there are good women in the world.... Ppl do BS and messed up stuff but no one knows the reason some ppl do stuff for a reason while some (both men and women) are just genuinely some real johncrow... When we keep saying no man no good or no woman no good we make our kids grow up with that mentality and then they act how they hear us say all women or all men act... We need to watch what we say or do in front of our kids and we also need to stop generalizing ppl not just in this instant but in others also #thinking_about_life #thinking_out_of_the_box

 I have rarely given myself credit for all the obstacles I overcame in silence. the sacrifices I have made to elevate my life to another level solely. My late nights and early mornings. tirelessly working to upgrade myself and mentality.  Tonight I say am proud of me. I am proud and happy that I overcame adversities that other ppl couldn't have. I pressed on even when I failed.  I continually tried until I became successful in the matter at hand. I am proud of me even if no one else is. For I know God favors me.. I still have a long way to go but I had to stop in my tracks just to say I am proud of me. I rise Am proud of me on a journey to win gotta make my daughter proud  God favors me leveled up upgrading life in silence maturing everyday

 This election has been one filled with suspense and drama. Two rival parties went head to head to see who America would choose to lead them for the next 4 years. war brew and protest ignited throughout the year 2020. we saw alot of things come to play, things that were for far too long swept under the rug.  Joe Biden at the end of the election came out victorious not only that but his team made history.  the first woman and person of color to become vice president.. now that is something that will be mentioned in history classes for a while.. 8 or so years ago we had our first black president and now yet another milestone.. while some Americans are happy and some are distraught let's just hope for the best as whatever takes place in the United states of America affects alot of different countries.

 A sudden chill of sadness rushed through her body as she laid in bed that night, reminiscing on all the the things she did that was spitefully taken for granted it was like all the other nights. The salty tears left Stephanie's dark brown eyes and flowed down her pale brown face before soaking into her pillow. To her it was if she was drowning in her own tears there was no one there to save her from herself. All the people who said they cared only came around to flood her mind with their pain and sorrow. She listened because she cared for them even more than she did for herself and now it was slowly killing her inside. She gave up trying to talk to people about her pain for she saw she only spoke in vain. Even though she lived in a house flooded with family members it was as if she was isolated on an island.   Things weren't always like this she would try to convince herself but deep down she knew that was mendacious. This was her life for as far as she could remember the onl...

 Welcome back Guys, So I know it has been a while and all since I written, I have been busy and as such I am just getting the chance.  2020 has come up with a lot of challenges and also it has open my eyes to a lot of things. I have won battles that I never thought was possible for me to win. I have accomplished a lot of things through hard work, perseverance and determination. This pandemic has given me your resources and enough time to revamp my goals and the plan that I had to ascertain theme. Things I was putting off for a later date I got the time to put a plan in place and achieve majority of them.  I didn't see the glass half empty I rather saw it half full. I prayed , I worked hard and most importantly I never gave up. No matter how many times you fail never under any circumstances give up on your goals! Live laugh love Enjoy life to the fullest...

Welcome back, today we will speak about fake websites.  During this pandemic there will be a lot fake websites some of which may be detrimental to your information or some will be simply a waste of time. Be careful how you go about clicking these websites. if it looks to good to be true it probably is fake. Until next time keep safe, live, laugh, love and be happy.

Happy Mother's Day  to all the wonderful mothers out there

welcome back guys, Today we will be dicussing the topic is blood really thicker than water?. Often times we have heard the saying " Blood aint thi cker than water" But in the eyes of reality not all persons can say this Now most of us may understand what we mean by saying this slang for the ones who are not aware it just simply means family above everyone else.  I for one have witness alot of people put other people over their blood family members be it for materialistic reasons, Personal reasons, etc. In today's world our millennials  tend to say that "blood makes us related However, loyalty makes us family". Alot of us may disagree with this saying but if you look into it deeply we all have a one or more family members that would do anything to keep you down or never has the time to assist you with anything. They always  come to you for assistance but turn a blind eye when you need them the most; But, there is this one person who at first was a co...

Welcome back, I hope we are all keeping safe during this pandemic. Please remember to wash your hands, cover your mouth and nose when coughing or sneezing and use an alcohol based hand sanitizer or wipes always. Today I would like to briefly speak on the topic love. Love is something that is rare but a lot of people like to cloak the feelings of obsession and infatuation with the expression of love.  Love is not something that is short lived and when u truly love someone giving up on them and what you have is one of the hardest things you can ever do. You easily forgive them for the wrongs they do and try your best to make them better. it's like when a mother has a rude or stubborn child no matter how many times  that child gives that mother trouble. the mom will never give up on her child in fact she will do her utmost best to try and guide her child to be the best and she will always see the good in that child.  With love will always come growth. Love ...

Welcome back, Well Mother's day is just around the corner and while we are under lock down alot of our mother's day tradition cannot be performed in these unprecedented times. we may not be able to take mom out on a date or throw a thank you party, or buy her those extravagant gifts but, there are still simple things we can do to warm her heart. If you know your mother's favorite meals you can prepare them Breakfast,  lunch and dinner. pamper her, so something for her that you have never done before that you know she will love and appreciate. Get creative the pandemic is no excuse to not give ur mother a lil extra love this mother's day in fact it has given u more time to plan and prepare to take both yours mind and hers off what's happening in the world even if it's for one day. remember to wash your hands, cover your mouth when you cough and sneeze, always wear a mask in public places and keep safe..  until next time Life, Laugh, Love and inspire

Welcome back, Today am going to give u a few tips to keep you mentally stable during this pandemic where we all have to be in quarantine. these tips will help you whether your are working from home, home schooling the kids. alone with your partner  or simply just a single person living alone. If you are working from home u can simply decorate your work space with vibrant colors and photographs of loved ones.  In  seeing that is where u spend majority of ur day decorating your workspace lifts the mood and u wont feel so alone and dull while working.. If you are homeschooling the kids you can find creative ways of bonding with them while teaching them the materials sent to you by their educators.  if your child loves singing come together and create a song based on the lesson not only will it be fun but it will also take everyone's mind off of being locked up at home.. If you and your spouse lives alone you can plan a suprise inside night out regardless of the...

Hey guys welcome again to my blog. today the discussion will be based on the the topic Polygamy. Now alot of us might know that polygamy is a custom where an individual has more than one spouse. Even though the definition of polygamy is similar to that of cheating or having an affair it would not have been the same as, with polygamy all parties are aware and have a somewhat mutual agreement for this to take place.. in most cases all parties involve live under the same roof. Polygamy is a tradition that was shunned upon by most people but in today's era alot more persons are open minded to this way of life. We have a lot more people finding out and exploring new sexuallites and being more diverse when it comes to what they do..  Now while polygamy might not be for everyone it's better to partake in such a lifestyle than to hurt the ones you love by going behind their backs to do the very same thing u can seek consent to do in my opinion..

Hey guys, Welcome to my blog where I will give u a few trips into my mind so u can be introduced to a  little of what I think and believe in on a daily basis.. I hope you enjoy my content...